Since
I feel Lawrence Clark words his point well I won’t paraphrase.
Rather, enjoy this direct quote from Clark’s The Guardian article
“Laurence
Clark: My Life as a Superhero.” “I came to realise that the
less fortunate you are perceived to be, the less you have to achieve
before you're labeled ‘inspiring.’ It (calling me inspirational)
was a polite way of people telling me they thought I probably
wouldn't amount to much, but had somehow surpassed their low
expectations.”
Now
these sentiments from Laurence Clark left me momentarily
second-guessing publishing my teenage memoir Off
Balanced,
which explores how having a mild case of cerebral palsy affected me
socially as an adolescent. While writing Off
Balanced I
hoped to capture an inspirational tone. Given this goal, did I cater
to and thus consequently endorse able-bodied individuals’ low
expectations of the disability community?
The
question gains intrigue when you ponder the first time someone called
me an inspiration. Allow me to flashback to December 2008, my senior
year in college. After finishing my music theory final I went to turn
in my test. As I handed Sister Karita my work she looked up at me and
said “Zach, you’re an inspiration to anyone who has to overcome
challenges, physical or otherwise.”
“Wow!”
I thought. I never considered myself inspirational before. My
cerebral palsy did cause me to work harder at various tasks but I
considered this life, not reason to stand on a metaphorical pedestal
and claim “I’m an inspiration.” Yet Sister Karita’s
compliment enabled me to see my life from a different perspective and
planted a seed which eventually led me to pen Off
Balanced.
So
again I ask, did I cater to and thus consequently endorse able-bodied
individuals’ low expectations of the disability community? I say no
because my intentions expand beyond a general “I live with a
disability so I’m inspirational” concept. I concentrated on
writing my book in a way which could reach teenagers discouraged by
their handicaps and teach them to stop throwing themselves pity
parties.
Laurence
Clark admits in his aforementioned article, “I have achieved things
I wouldn't mind being considered inspiring; I am a proud runner-up in
the Amused Moose Laughter Awards. If this inspires a young comic,
that would be brilliant: after all, I wouldn't be doing what I do
today had I not been inspired by Dave Gorman's show.”
Bottom
line, appropriately deeming somebody living with a disability
“inspirational” comes down to context. Simply living with a
disability doesn’t justify the “inspiring” label. Just like any
able-bodied inspiration, such praise should earn merit based off the
person’s actions and motives.
Author
and freelance writer Zachary Fenell regularly blogs at
www.offbalanced.wordpress.com
and writes for The
Mobility Resource. His book Off Balanced remains available for
the Kindle and
Nook.
To learn more about Fenell visit www.zacharyfenell.com.
Contact him at @zacharyfenell
on Twitter or by emailing contact@zacharyfenell.com.
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